Lola

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    Location:
    Fredericksburg
    What I Represent I'd like to represent every hard working single mom out there, who doesn't depend on anyone and who strive hard to give the best for her kids no matter what life brings.
    Here For Not Specified
    Relationship Status Single
    Orientation Not Sure
    Children Proud Parent
    Number of Children 1
    Body Type More to love
    Height 5'0"
    Religion Christian - Other
    Ethnicity Pacific Islander
    Smoke No
    Drink Socially
    About Me Hmm, I don't think I'd be able to love again. After a few relationships, quite often I get hurt in the process. Every time I try to give my heart to someone, he usually returns it back to me torn into pieces. The only man who keeps me going in life is my loving 10 yr old son, Brian. He's my pride and joy, and I am the luckiest mom in the world for having such a loving, clever & handsome son.
    Music What can I say I love Hot 99.5 Kane Show, TOBY & Vibegirl!!! I admit, I'm a sucker for punk rock & heavy metal, but there's something about the DJs at Hot99.5. Oh yeah, they "crack me up"! Kane Show is simply addicting like that. So yeah, thanks HOT99.5 for making my driving to work everyday bearable & painless.
    Movies Erm...honestly, I hardly go to movie theatre now a days. I usually just watch free movies online. Get a bigazzze plasma monitor, hook it up with free movies online. Hek ya, you save money & you don't have to put up with noisy folks at the theatre.
    TV Can you believe this, I pay $99.99 (are you out of your mind) per month for cable TV, internet & phone service from Cox. Life is a cynch with awesome deals like that! Can't beat it. I just wish I have time to watch my 450 channels on TV... blah!
    Books Last book I read was "The Appeal" by John Grisham. I have collected John Grisham's novels quite a few. So if you guys are a fan of JG, I'd sell my used books for $1 a piece. They're hard cover too...so yeah, they are not cheap! :)
    Likes Besides hearty home cooking, music, happy (tree)times, blue motorcycle, long island iced tea, and greygoose vodka martini...I like pretty much everybody until you give me a reason not to like you, of course. So yeah, I'm open minded. I'm game for spontaniety. Mind you, do you have a list of things you want to do before you die? I'm still working on it. I'm such a sissy I can't even touch a worm...lmao!
    Dislikes I don't like it when I'm PMS'ng coz I don't have the patience to put up with other people's bullshytes, arrogance, fake people & drama queens. lmao! :) But hey that's the only time we get to be "us", it's a woman thing. lol I just wish God will give me the courage to stop "hating" on anything or whatever life may bring; oh yeah and a wisdom where to hide the bodies of those who always piss me off (JOKE ONLY)...or maybe not...lmao!
    Hobbies Are you kidding me? Do single moms actually have time for hobbies? lmao! My Brian usually keeps me busy watching movies, playing golf, chillin' at the beach, fishing at nearby river, reading & studying for school, playing x-box & playstation, home cooking & baking his favorite dishes & desserts. Yeap, he's my full time job, blessing in disguise, except I don't see the cash flow coming in...it's always flowing out of my pocket...lmao! He's worth every penny though. :)
    Vices Good hearted people; they're hard to come across.
    Virtues easy-going & enjoy being around good hearted friends and strangers (only select few...lol)
    Heroes 1. Our Lord Jesus Christ-who always blesses & stands by me whatever I choose & decide in my life...........2. My loving son Brian-who is my life, who keeps me going in times of hardships and hopefully throughout the journey of our lives. I can't wait to see him graduate in college & start his own family someday...........3. Music Artists, DJs & Comedians - for they lift up my spirit whenever I'm sad or heart broken............4. Friends & Family - for putting up with my crazyazzze & PMS'ng times. Thank you for your unconditional love & support. Without you guys is like living in this world without flowers, trees, mountains & lakes surrounding me. I'm so grateful for everything you've given me for years, 'coz I always find peace, encouragement & happiness from you all. (I think I'm gonna cry now...*sobs* lol)

My Updates

    Thursday, September 25
    Lola Is it Friday yet? :)
    Mood: smitten
    Wednesday, September 24
    Lola Oh what a day :) Come what may :)
    Mood: smitten
    Wednesday, September 17
    Lola I'm right here, can't you feel? A gentle breeze upon your lips. Oh what a day come what may :-)
    Mood: smitten
    Monday, September 15
    Lola misses you all :)
    Mood: naughty
    Best Friends
  • Sarah , 26
    Sarah

  • vibe, 32
    vibe

  • Toby Knapp, 33
    Toby
    Knapp

  • Kane, 31
    Kane

  • TashaLicious, 25
    TashaLic
    ious

  • GiantAsian, 27
    GiantAsi
    an

  • MO, 25
    MO

  • ORNIE FOCKER, 28
    ORNIE
    FOCKER

  • MissMari, 21
    MissMari

  • Erick / Armondo, 26
    Erick /
    Armondo

  • Hot 99.5, 107
    Hot 99.5

  • Samy K, 22
    Samy K

  • B.S 4th Qt , 27
    B.S 4th
    Qt

  • Andy, 31
    Andy

  • New Friends
  • Eric, 23
    Eric

  • Coralis, 21
    Coralis

  • Rachel, 24
    Rachel

  • Charlie, 30
    Charlie

  • Rodney, 53
    Rodney

  • Marie, 28
    Marie

  • Marta, 33
    Marta

    Ever wonder what these romantic gestures mean?

    Thursday, March 20, 2008, 09:53 AM EST [General]

    ♥ ♥ The Rules Of Love ♥ ♥

    *Kiss on the Lips = "I Love You"

    *Kiss on the Ear = "You Are Special"

    *Kiss on the Nose = "Laughter"

    *Kiss on the Cheek = "Friendship"

    *Kiss on the Forehead = "I Comfort U"

    *Kiss on the Neck = "I Want You"

    *Kiss on the Shoulder = "You Are Wonderful"

    *Kiss anywhere Else = "Be Careful"

    *Play around with Hair = "Can't Live Without You"

    *Holding Hands = "Happiness"

    *Arms around Waist= "You Are Mine I Need You"

    *A Hug = "I Care"

    *Nibble on Ear = "Start Warming Up"

    *Smiling at Eachother = "I Like You"

    *Lifting up eyebrows /Wink/ = "Flirtation"

    *Looking Around = "Hiding True Feelings"

    *Tender kiss on the side of ur lips = "You're Mine"

    *Wetting your Lips = "Waiting 4 A Kiss"

    *Teardrop = "I'm Losing You"

    *Crying = "I Lost You"

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    20 Things Girls Want Guys To Know

    Thursday, October 18, 2007, 09:11 AM EST [General]

     

    When I read this, I was overwhelmed and feeling nauseated. It's so freaking true, it scares the shiz nitz outta me. Finally, someone has the guts to reveal our secrets to the world on how to win our hearts.

    20 Things Girls want Guys to Know

    1. We love when you cuddle with us.
    2. A kiss on the cheek is a definite "Yes".
    3. We want you to put your arm around us in the movies.
    4. We don't care if you are the strongest guy in the world.
    5. Size doesn't matter, so don't tell us!
    6. We don't always look our best, so get over it!
    7. We shouldn't have to plan everything.
    8. We're always ready to talk, so call us!
    9. We're not perfect, so deal with it!
    10. We love surprises.
    11. The little things you do mean the most.
    12. We're not always girly girls.
    13. We can like boy stuff too.
    14. Cursing and fighting don't impress us.
    15. Don't be mean to us to get our attention.
    16. Don't tell us who is hot because we don't care.
    17. We can tell when you are not listening, so listen up!
    18. When we say we are cold that's our invitation to come closer.
    19. Hugs mean more sometimes.
    20. We need your advice sometimes, so don't be afraid to give it to us.

    Well ladies, perhaps these simple tips for men would make our lives much more exciting & bearable when it comes to a relationship.

    Have a good day!
    Lolita


     

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    30 Ways To Make a Girl Smile :)

    Thursday, October 11, 2007, 12:49 PM EST [General]

    Hmm, I read this somewhere earlier and it's my favorite piece *smiles* (guys, if you have no clue on girls, let's see if they would give you some ideas *winks* - good luck!)

    1. Tell her she is beautiful.
    2. Hold her hand whenever you can, she loves that.ยก@
    3. Kiss her on the forehead.
    4. Leave her voice messages / sms to wake up to.
    5. Always tell her she's the only girl you wanna be with.
    6. When she is upset tell her how much she means to you.
    7. Recognize the small things . . . they mean the most.
    8. Call her baby.
    9. Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.
    10. Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
    11. Write her notes, she loves them.
    12. Introduce her to family and friends as your girlfriend.
    13. Play with her hair.
    14. Pick her up, tickle her and play wrestle with her.
    15. Talk to her without having to kiss her.
    16. Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just tell her jokes.
    17. Tell her when you miss her.
    18. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
    19. Open the car door for her.
    20. If she's mad at you, kiss her.
    21. Give her piggyback rides.
    22. Randomly tell her when you think she looks her best.
    23. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.
    24. Look her in the eyes and smile.
    25. Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
    26. Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.
    27. Don't ever ignore her, no matter who is around.
    28. Kiss her in the rain.
    29. Tell her EVERYTHING that's going on in your life. She wants to know.
    30. When you fall in love with her . . . Tell her!!!

    I must say I love them all *laughs*. So girls, feel free to tell me which one you love best.

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    Hey, thanx for the add on how are you??

    Eric
    September 18, 2008
    04:32 PM EST

    Hey Lola,
    Thanks for the add on.
    Have a Great day.

    Rodney
    August 13, 2008
    10:23 AM EST

    lol I thought you would be going to Fur tomorrow with Kane lol I still love that picture its so cool! =0)

    lisha
    May 02, 2008
    10:34 AM EST

    Hi! Just wanted to say I hope you have a great weekend!! Don't party too hard! lol

    lisha
    May 02, 2008
    08:55 AM EST

    it's been a while, hi!

    Water7
    April 30, 2008
    11:13 AM EST

    hey sweetie...thanks so much for the nice message! i'm glad to be back, still feeling a little sick but i missed the show!!

    Can't wait to see ya at LBD!! it is going to be a blast!!

    ttyl,

    sarah

    Sarah
    November 28, 2007
    06:08 PM EST

    lol, are there a lack of asians around here? you seem so surprised... ;)

    Water7
    November 09, 2007
    10:46 AM EST

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